Salam Alaykum brs and sisters,

i need your help...to my understanding the husband will be with the wife in paradise inshallah if they are granted paradise.

i read in the past that a man was granted paradise. then Allah (swt) presented him with a beautiful houri. The man prasied and glorified Allah (swt) for her. Then Allah (swt) presented the man with a even more beautiful houri again and again till the man was presented with the most beautiful companion for him. The man said no more Allah (swt) i am pleased enough. Then Allah (swt) reveals that the final one was his wife on Earth - well it went something like this anyways i thnk

MY QUESTION to u guys is...can u give me reference to a hadith similar to this. ive been on line checking for it but could not find the hadith that describes the story mentioned above.

hope u guys can help

Salam

Assalamu Alaikum,
type in "hadtih wife paradise" (without quotations) in Yahoo! search engine. and look at the results from the IslamOnline website. It answeres some of your closely related question. Hope it helps....

Walaikum Assalam! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)

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do you have any refrence for your story?

As far I know when both husband and wife are forgiven and grant to Jannah The husband will get many Huries. Human being or Jinn won't be able to describe their beauty. They will be married off with the man. BUt his wife in the earth will be the most beautiful one among them and she will be the leader among Huries.

I have some queries about Huris. The Holy Quran indicates the beauty of Huuri ( probably in The Surah Ar-Rahman). But I am confused when I see translation of those verses about Huur. Those verses are transletd in my language in a way that made me confused about the way of description of their beauty. I don't understand Arabic. So to understand I have to read the translations as well. It is told that the Huur will be so beautiful that their boon marrow will be seen tearing 70 sheets of cloths. I think would it be looking good when someone's boon marrow are seen from outside? Please meet up my thirst.

"As far I know when both husband and wife are forgiven and grant to Jannah The husband will get many Huries. Human being or Jinn won't be able to describe their beauty. They will be married off with the man. BUt his wife in the earth will be the most beautiful one among them and she will be the leader among Huries"


IM NOT YELLING:

HERES WHERE IM CONFUSED WHAT IF THE PERSON HAD MORE THEN ONE WIFE AND WHAT IF SAY FOR EXAMPLLE I MADLY FELL IN LOVE WITH A WOMEN AND ANOTHER MAN MARRIED HER AND I WANT HER IN HEAVEN SINCE I COULDNT HAVE HER ON EARTH....

I am interested in the verse in the Quran that supports this idea.

Subhanaallah - what a devils advocate u are!!

"Subhanaallah - what a devils advocate u are!!"

what are u talking about......im serious what if u had more then one wife.......and what if u fell in love the halal way with a women and never got to have her.....this stuff happens to ppl like me.....it hurts and its no laughing matter.....

ur the devils advocate for saying that....

can someone with knowledge reply back please

Praise be to Allah (The Exalted and Glorified).

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There is no such thing as the story of what you have mentioned and ALLAH knows best. This is something some people feel they should make-up because they believe it makes some women feel better. There are some who may be surprised to know that men in Paradise will be wed to Al-Hoor al-‘iyn (The Maidens of Paradise). Men and women are separate from one another and possess their own individual souls. The husband is not intertwined to his wife, nor is the fate of the wife intertwined with that of her husband. For example Nuh and Lut (peace be upon them) were prophets of Allah, however, their wives were disbelievers and will become inmates of Hell. This is mentioned in the following verse, “Allah sets forth, for an example to the unbelievers, the wife of Nuh and the wife of Lut: they were (respectively) under two of our righteous servants, but they were false to their (husbands), and they profited nothing before Allah on their account, but were told: ‘Enter ye the Fire along with (others) that enter!’” [66:10]. Allah (The Exalted) created mankind as social creatures, living within communities and families, “There is not an animal (that lives) on the Earth, nor a being that flies on its wings, but (forms part of) communities like you...” [6:38]. Each soul was drawn from the backbone of Adam (peace be upon him). Allah (The Exalted and Glorified) determined which souls would comprise a family, which souls would marry, which children they would be given as a trust to raise, and so forth. These relationships are part of the trial and life of this world. However, on the Day of Resurrection, kinship and family ties will be severed and each soul will return to its original state of being independent, “To Us shall return all that he talks of and he shall appear before Us bare and alone” [19:80]. The husband and wife have their own individual responsibility before Allah. Both the man and woman are expected to become true slaves of Allah (The Exalted and Glorified). The purpose of marriage should be to help one another in adhering to the rulings of the Creator and to raise pious Believers. Those that enter Paradise with other members of their families, will be permitted to reunite, by the Mercy of Allah. Each of them will be given an ample reward in Paradise that suits their nature. The reward of Al-Hoor al-‘iyn suits the nature of man.

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What you suffer from is the Shaytaan waswaas (demonic whisper). One’s entire life is meant to be lived in servitude to Allah. Among the greatest evils the shayateen have inspired, is the idea of “love” for the opposite gender. A Muslim may respect and love his spouse for being Muslim and one’s companion in life and to earn the Pleasure of Allah, but the extreme infatuation inspired by the shayateen, takes the form idolatry. In this case, individuals live for other members of the creation, thereby at times acting in defiance of the Shariah (Islamic Laws), which is the case with those who perform zina (fornication/adultery). Undoubtedly, this extreme infatuation and emotional attachment to another member of the creation, competes with the love for Allah (The Exalted). The Believer must remember the love Ibrahim (peace be upon him) displayed for Allah (The Exalted), for which he was willing to sacrifice his first-born son, Isma’il (peace be upon him).

ok, whether i was in love or not, will i ever see her in heaven if i wanted, the original women(soul), and can i be with her in marriage?

Yes of course, you and your wife will be joined in paradise for a meal of 72 grapes.(no more virgins left,sorry)