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What Is A Wife?

Started By Sister_Truth , Jun 02 2005 02:14 PM

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Poll: What is your wife/s or future wife to you? (87 member(s) have cast votes)

What is your wife/s or future wife to you?

  1. A Beautiful rose that should be treated carefully and wth love (43 votes [49.43%])

    Percentage of vote: 49.43%

  2. A strong woman with her own views and opinions who i should listen to (19 votes [21.84%])

    Percentage of vote: 21.84%

  3. She should obey her husbands everyword and not have an opinion (3 votes [3.45%])

    Percentage of vote: 3.45%

  4. She is worthless, and should be there to make babies (3 votes [3.45%])

    Percentage of vote: 3.45%

  5. Other (state below) (18 votes [20.69%])

    Percentage of vote: 20.69%

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#41 Haqqul_Yaqeen

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Posted 20 February 2007 - 06:31 PM

:sl:

I'll leave this to the brothers...

On a side note, I think we should find brother Chris a wife really soon. :) Your posts brother have been so nice lately! (like the "find a mirror" one :))

May Allah :sl: bless you with a loving wife to be your companion in this world and the next.

:j:

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Posted 21 February 2007 - 01:25 PM

:sl:

I'll leave this to the brothers...

On a side note, I think we should find brother Chris a wife really soon. :D Your posts brother have been so nice lately! (like the "find a mirror" one :))

May Allah :sl: bless you with a loving wife to be your companion in this world and the next.

:j:


:)

A######ww thanks Sis.

Inshallah, Allah will bless me woth the finest of all wives. :D

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Posted 21 February 2007 - 02:25 PM

Allah will bless me woth the finest of all wives

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Posted 25 February 2007 - 08:06 PM

ok i think all should choose 1st option rite

well i think it is rite

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Posted 25 February 2007 - 08:18 PM

i too voted for 1 but i think u shoud be voted for 4
rite sania
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Posted 22 October 2007 - 11:10 AM

Assalamu alaikum,
What is your view of your wife/s or future wife, how do you/ would you view her? how would you treat her?
post your opinions below...

MaSalama
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It would depend, for example if a person is in love with their wife they will naturally look at her in a completely different way to someone who has been arranged into a marriage.
For example there is nothing better then to watch the women who you love sleeping and wandering what she might be dreaming of.
Or just having her sleep in your arms or seeing those beutiful tears falling down her face....
but thats ..... what some people like

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Posted 22 October 2007 - 12:41 PM

:sl:

Try to see good in people rather than the bad in them :j:

I would always try to see the best in my wife rather than the worst :no:

Always show your love to your wife, even if you don't receive it back, love, compassion and patience will do wonders.

:sl:

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Posted 22 October 2007 - 01:47 PM

Assalamu alaykum

Given the option I would have voted for first two options.

It is sunnah of Rasulullah SAWS, he accepted opnions from ummahatul momineen. I accept my wife's view. I even consult her.

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Posted 22 October 2007 - 02:32 PM

:sl:

If I was a guy, I would choose option A and B :sl:

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Posted 27 October 2007 - 05:14 AM

Aslamaikum

I voted for the first one but also believe she has her own views and should listen to her.

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Posted 27 October 2007 - 06:04 AM

:sl:

What is a wife?
The most cherished companion.

:sl:

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Posted 27 October 2007 - 09:37 AM

:sl:

Good answer brother k-melon :j:

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Posted 29 October 2007 - 01:06 PM

that answer is not just good, that is a great answer.

if i had to choose,i would choose 2, but after adding other bits and pieces.

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Posted 29 October 2007 - 01:17 PM

Assalamualikum

A Beautiful rose that should be treated carefully and wth love

A strong woman with her own views and opinions who i should listen to

your best most trustful friend and as brother k-melon said ...The most cherished companion

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Posted 29 October 2007 - 01:18 PM

...or in some cases...The four most cherished companions :sl:

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Posted 30 October 2007 - 02:39 AM

Alhamdillah alethy ahyana ba ad ma amatana wa eleyhe ilnshooor

Good morning everybody
Muslim Wife , equal state in life , no complains , time for Islam and work and some things and stuff and the end of day for an 3 4 hours with wife , she must accept
because our life is afterlife not now.
treat her good for sure lol but not in the morning .
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and inshallah she is not sticky but has patience .

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Posted 31 August 2010 - 03:19 AM

treat her good for sure lol but not in the morning

Not in the morning?

I would have liked to vote for 1 & 2, but that isn't an option.

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Posted 09 December 2010 - 11:25 AM

A Beautiful rose that should be treated carefully and with love

A Wife is someone who should be your best frien in the world. Someone you can confide your every thought and secrets in. You should share everything with your Wife. She is part of you and with your love you will have a soul mate for life and a companion in this world and the next.

Women are one of the most beautiful creations that Allah has given to the world and as Brothers it is our duty to thank Allah and treat them with love always.


I agree with brother Chrism :sl:
Nice words Mash'Allah , but I also would like to add that a wife is the one who should help her husband in the deen , and take care of him just like a baby with kindness and love !!

As a girl I want to to say that a husband is someone who should be the source of the power and the strength for the women and the one who help her and take care of her as well ..

Jazakum Allhau Khair

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Posted 09 December 2010 - 07:47 PM

I agree with brother Chrism :sl:
Nice words Mash'Allah , but I also would like to add that a wife is the one who should help her husband in the deen , and take care of him just like a baby with kindness and love !!

As a girl I want to to say that a husband is someone who should be the source of the power and the strength for the women and the one who help her and take care of her as well ..

Jazakum Allhau Khair


Asalaam Alikum

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I was Chrism, then IBowOnly2Allah, and now IbrahimMuhammed.

Inshallah I shall make dua for you Sister :sl:

May Allah ta'ala grant us all the wife/husband that we desire

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Posted 10 December 2010 - 03:20 AM

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1. Roses are plants. Women are humans. They should be treated as Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, commands. The goal of all of us is to Allah.
2. None of us have our own views.
3. She must obey her husband in everything as long as it doesn't involve disobedience to Allah.
4. She isn't worhtless. How is she worthless when you need her?
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