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#1 Balushia

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Posted 21 May 2009 - 04:46 PM

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My husband and I are trying to get pregnant, I am looking for duaa for pregnancy. Can some of you guide me. I have been looking for some on line but have not been able to find any...

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Posted 21 May 2009 - 05:44 PM

Best in that are the Quranic Duaa'. Those two are of Zakareyya:

"رَبِّ هَبْ لِي مِن لَّدُنْكَ ذُرِّيَّةً طَيِّبَةً إِنَّكَ سَمِيعُ الدُّعَاء " Rabbi hab lee min ladunka thurriyyatan tayyibatan 'innaka sameeAAu aldduAAa'
O my Lord! Grant unto me from Thee a progeny that is pure: for Thou art He that heareth prayer!

AND

"رَبِّ لَا تَذَرْنِي فَرْدًا وَأَنتَ خَيْرُ الْوَارِثِينَ " Rabbi la tatharnee fardan wa'anta khayru alwaritheen
O my Lord! leave me not without offspring, though thou art the best of inheritors

Then there is also this one:

"رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامً" Rabbana hab lana min 'azwajina wathurriyyatina qurrata aAAyunin waijAAalna lilmuttaqeena imama
Our Lord! Grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.

Also use the following one for good children:

"رَبَّنَا وَاجْعَلْنَا مُسْلِمَيْنِ لَكَ وَمِن ذُرِّيَّتِنَا أُمَّةً مُّسْلِمَةً لَّكَ وَأَرِنَا مَنَاسِكَنَا وَتُبْ عَلَيْنَآ إِنَّكَ أَنتَ التَّوَّابُ الرَّحِيمُ " Rabbana waijAAalna muslimayni laka wamin thurriyyatina ommatan muslimatan laka wa'arina manasikana watub AAalayna 'innaka 'anta alttawwabu alrraheem
Our Lord! make of us Muslims, bowing to Thy (Will), and of our progeny a people Muslim, bowing to Thy (will); and show us our place for the celebration of (due) rites; and turn unto us (in Mercy); for Thou art the Oft-Returning, Most Merciful


Make these supplications after every prayer, couple it with the prayer of need (Salatul Haja). Use the times of acceptance, like the wee hours of the morning, the rain etc. And may God bless you with the best of children.

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Edited by Sampharo, 21 May 2009 - 05:48 PM.


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Posted 21 May 2009 - 06:54 PM

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I would say increase your tawbah and istighfaar. See the tafsir of an ayah I am refering to from Surah Nooh:

QUOTE:
﴿ÝóÞõáúÊõ ÇÓúÊóÛúÝöÑõæÇú ÑóÈøóßõãú Åöäøóåõ ßóÇäó ÛóÝøóÇÑÇð ﴾


(I said: Ask forgiveness from your Lord, verily, He is Oft-Forgiving;) meaning, `return to Him and turn away from what you are involved in. Repent to Him soon, for verily, He is Most Accepting of the repentance of those who turn to Him in repentance. He will accept repentance no matter what the sin is, even if it is disbelief and polytheism.' Thus, he said,


﴿ÝóÞõáúÊõ ÇÓúÊóÛúÝöÑõæÇú ÑóÈøóßõãú Åöäøóåõ ßóÇäó ÛóÝøóÇÑÇð - íõÑúÓöáö ÇáÓøóãóÂÁó Úóáóíúßõãú ãõÏúÑóÇÑÇð ﴾


(I said: Ask forgiveness from your Lord, verily, He is Oft-Forgiving; He will send rain to you Midrar,) meaning, continuous rain. Thus, it is recommended to recite this Surah in the prayer for rain due to this Ayah. This has been reported from the Commander of the faithful, `Umar bin Al-Khattab. He ascended the Minbar to perform the prayer for rain, and he did not do more than seeking Allah's forgiveness and reciting the Ayat that mention seeking Allah's forgiveness. Among these Ayat:


﴿ÝóÞõáúÊõ ÇÓúÊóÛúÝöÑõæÇú ÑóÈøóßõãú Åöäøóåõ ßóÇäó ÛóÝøóÇÑÇð - íõÑúÓöáö ÇáÓøóãóÂÁó Úóáóíúßõãú ãõÏúÑóÇÑÇð ﴾


(I said: Ask forgiveness from your Lord, verily, He is Oft-Forgiving; He will send rain to you Midrar,) Then he (`Umar) said, "Verily, I have sought rain with the keys of the sky which cause the rain to descend.'' Ibn `Abbas and others have said, "It (Midrar) means some of it (rain) following others.'' Concerning Allah's statement,


﴿æóíõãúÏöÏúßõãú ÈöÃóãúæóáò æóÈóäöíäó æóíóÌúÚóá áøóßõãú ÌóäøóÜÊò æóíóÌúÚóá áøóßõãú ÃóäúåóÇÑÇð ﴾


(And give you increase in wealth and children, and bestow on you gardens and bestow on you rivers.) meaning, `if you repent to Allah, seek His forgiveness and obey Him, He will increase your provisions for you and provide you with water from the blessings of the sky. He will cause the blessings of the earth and crops to grow for you. He will increase your live stock animals for you and give you more wealth and children. This means that He will give you more wealth, more children and gardens with various types of fruits. He will cause rivers to flow among these gardens.' This is the position of the invitation with encouragement. Then He made it balanced for them by using intimidation.
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Posted 22 May 2009 - 06:42 AM

Sallam alaykum

Umammar: can u put the arabic into transliteration? I can speak arabic but can not read it.

Sam: Can u explain to me more about sulatu haja (the prayer of need)
Is this also good for debts, cuz my husband has alot of them and he is always praying extra, such as suratu dhuha (mid morning) and the one late night.....

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Posted 22 May 2009 - 08:32 AM

Salatul Haja is simple. Make a fresh Wudu with an intent for this prayer and make it well, then pray two rakaat prayer, reading whatever you like (some prefer the Kaferoon in first, and the Ikhlas in the second). After you finish, make a good tasbeeh "Subhan Allah" and Hamd "AlHamdolellah" and Takbeer "Allaho Akbar" and of course a good salat and praise on the prophet -pbuh-, then lift your hands in supplication and say the following:

áÇ Åöáóåó ÅöáÇ Çááøóåõ ÇáúÍóáöíãõ ÇáúßóÑöíãõ ÓõÈúÍóÇäó Çááøóåö ÑóÈøö ÇáúÚóÑúÔö ÇáúÚóÙöíãö ÇáúÍóãúÏõ áöáøóåö ÑóÈøö ÇáúÚóÇáóãöíäó ÃóÓúÃóáõßó ãõæÌöÈóÇÊö ÑóÍúãóÊößó æóÚóÒóÇÆöãó ãóÛúÝöÑóÊößó æóÇáúÛóäöíãóÉó ãöäú ßõáøö ÈöÑøò æóÇáÓøóáÇãóÉó ãöäú ßõáøö ÅöËúãò áÇ ÊóÏóÚú áöí ÐóäúÈðÇ ÅöáÇ ÛóÝóÑúÊóåõ æóáÇ åóãøðÇ ÅöáÇ ÝóÑøóÌúÊóåõ æóáÇ ÍóÇÌóÉð åöíó áóßó ÑöÖðÇ ÅöáÇ ÞóÖóíúÊóåóÇ íóÇ ÃóÑúÍóãó ÇáÑøóÇÍöãöíäó
La ilaha ilAllahul Halimul Karim. SubhanAllahi Rabbil 'rshil adheem. Alhamdulilahi Rabbil 'alameen. As'aluka mujibaati rahmatik. Wa aza'ima magh-firatik. Wal ghanimata min kulli birr. Was salamata min kuuli ithm. La tada' li dhamban illa ghafartah. Wa la hamman illa far-rajtah. Wa la hajatan hiya laka ridan illa qadaytaha. Ya arhamar rahimin.

"There there no god but Allah the Clement and Wise. There is no god but Allah the High and Mighty. Glory be to Allah, Lord of the Tremendous Throne. All praise is to Allah, Lord of the worlds. I ask you (O Allah) everything that leads to your mercy, and your tremendous forgiveness, enrichment in all good, and freedom from all sin. Do not leave a sin of mine (O Allah), except that you forgive it, nor any concern except that you create for it an opening, nor any need in which there is your good pleasure except that you fulfill it, O Most Merciful!"

And then mention your need and desire (Haja), and add whatever supplications you like after that. You can use the duaa mentioned in my post above.

As for Umammar post, the quran verses are the verses that say if you make Isteghfar God will forgive your sins insha Allah and provide you with money and children. The verses themselves aren't a Duaa, but the gist of it is that you need to make isteghfar a lot, along with Hamd. Here are a few good ones:

The master of Istighfar:
Çááøóåõãøó ÃóäúÊó ÑóÈøöí áÇ Åöáóåó ÅöáÇ ÃóäúÊó ÎóáóÞúÊóäöí æóÃóäóÇ ÚóÈúÏõßó æóÃóäóÇ Úóáóì ÚóåúÏößó æóæóÚúÏößó ãóÇ ÇÓúÊóØóÚúÊõ ÃóÚõæÐõ Èößó ãöäú ÔóÑøö ãóÇ ÕóäóÚúÊõ ÃóÈõæÁõ áóßó ÈöäöÚúãóÊößó Úóáóíøó æóÃóÈõæÁõ áóßó ÈöÐóäúÈöí ÝóÇÛúÝöÑú áöí ÝóÅöäøóåõ áÇ íóÛúÝöÑõ ÇáÐøõäõæÈó ÅöáÇ ÃóäúÊó
Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa Anta Khalaqtani wa ana abduka, wa ana 'ala ahdika wa wa'dika mastata'tu, A'udhu bika min Sharri ma sana'tu, abu'u Laka bini'matika 'alaiya, wa Abu'u Laka bidhanbi faghfirli fainnahu la yaghfiru adhdhunuba illa anta

O Allah! You are my Lord! None has the right to be worshipped but You. You created me and I am Your slave, and I am faithful to my covenant and my promise as much as I can. I seek refuge with You from all the evil I have done. I acknowledge before You all the blessings You have bestowed upon me, and I confess to You all my sins. So I entreat You to forgive my sins, for nobody can forgive sins except You.

The Duaa of Younis -Alayhee Assalam- in the belly of the Whale:
áøóÇ Åöáóåó ÅöáøóÇ ÃóäÊó ÓõÈúÍóÇäóßó Åöäøöí ßõäÊõ ãöäó ÇáÙøóÇáöãöíäó
La illaha illa Anta Subhanak, inni kuntu min adh-dhalimeen
There is no God but You; Glory be to You, Truly I have been one of the wrongdoers

Then there is:
ÃÓúÊóÛúÝöÑõ Çááøåó ÇáúÚóÙöíãó ÇáøóÐöí áÇ Åáóåó ÅáøóÇ åõæó ÇáúÍóíøõ ÇáúÞóíøõæãõ æÃÊæÈ Åáíå
Astaghfer ullaha AlAAtheema Allathee la 'Elaha 'Ella howa alHHayyo olqayyoomo wa'atoobo 'elayh
I seek the Forgiveness of Allah the Great, the one who there is no god but He,-the Living, the Self-subsisting, and repent to Him.

As for debts, there are other duaa's for debt than specifically the one for children. But Isteghfar and Hamd and an honest believing pious heart is important for both provisions, whether it is getting out of debt or being blessed with wealth and children.

ANd may God grant you what you need

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Posted 22 May 2009 - 08:49 AM

I copied this post from another website because I agree with it wholeheartedly. When it comes to money, it is part of God's provision, but usually people in dire need or deparate state turn to supplications and Duaa only and forget the worldly reasons of solving financial problems. Hopefully though with enough Duaa you will be guided onto those if your state of mind and heart is in the right place.

"Firstly: Be patient, and strive to free yourself from the situation you are in by seeking permissible ways of earning money from which you may make some profit and make up for your losses and pay off your debts. There are many means of earning money. A man may start with something small then it is blessed. We have seen this happen in real life.

Secondly: Reduce your spending on yourself, and remember that your creditors are more entitled to anything that is surplus to your basic needs. Do not be heedless about the matter of debt, and do not be extravagant in your spending. Do not let despair cause you to forget it or to fall short in looking for a way out.

Thirdly: Ask the creditors to be easygoing with you, and tell them that you are unable to pay it off, and ask them to give you more time. This is better for you than trying to avoid them or procrastinating, which will only make them angry with you.

Fourthly: Set straight the relationship between you and Allaah, may He be exalted, and He will set straight the relationship between you and other people. Allaah has promised those who obey Him that He will give them more of His bounty, as He says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Whoever works righteousness — whether male or female — while he (or she) is a true believer (of Islamic Monotheism) verily, to him We will give a good life (in this world with respect, contentment and lawful provision), and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do (i.e. Paradise in the Hereafter)” [al-Nahl 16:97]

“And whosoever fears Allaah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty).

3. And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine. And whosoever puts his trust in Allaah, then He will suffice him. Verily, Allaah will accomplish his purpose. Indeed Allaah has set a measure for all things” [al-Talaaq 65:2-3]

“I said (to them): ‘Ask forgiveness from your Lord, verily, He is Oft‑Forgiving;

11. ‘He will send rain to you in abundance,

12. ‘And give you increase in wealth and children, and bestow on you gardens and bestow on you rivers.’” [Nooh 71:10-12]

So pray a great deal for forgiveness, and repent and do righteous deeds, for the Mercy of Allaah is close to those who do good.

Fifthly: If you took out these loans intending to pay them back, then you must think positively of Allaah and trust that He will enable you to pay them off. Al-Bukhaari (2387) narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

“Whoever takes people’s wealth intending to pay it back, Allaah will enable him to pay it back.” Ibn Maajah (2409) narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah will be with the borrower until he pays off his debt, so long as it (the loan) is not for something that Allaah dislikes.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah.

Sixthly: Turn to Allaah in supplication (du’aa’), and be certain of receiving a response, for whoever persists in knocking at the door will soon have it opened for him. Choose the times when du’aa’s are answered, such as the last third of the night, after ‘Asr on Friday, between the adhaan and iqaamah, when travelling, and when breaking one’s fast.

There follow some du’aa’s that are appropriate for your situation:

Al-Tirmidhi (3563) narrated from ‘Ali (may Allaah be pleased with him) that a mukaatib (slave who had entered into a contract of manumission) came to him and said: “I am unable to pay off my manumission; help me.” He said: “Shall I not tell you some words which the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) taught me? And if you have debt like the mountain of Seer, Allaah will pay it off for you. He said: ‘Say: Allaahumma akfini bi halaalika ‘an haraamika wa aghnini bi fadlika ‘amman siwaaka (O Allaah, suffice me with what You have permitted so that that I have no need of that which You have forbidden, and make me independent of means by Your bounty so that I have no need of anyone besides You).’” This hadeeth was classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

Al-Tabaraani narrated in al-Mu’jam al-Sagheer that Anas ibn Maalik (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to Mu’aadh (may Allaah be pleased with him): “Shall I not teach you a du’aa’ which you may say even if you have debt like Mount Uhud, so that Allaah might pay it off for you? Say, O Mu’aadh:

‘Allaahumma Maalik al-mulk, tu’ti al-mulk man tasha’ wa tanziAA al-mulk mimman tasha’, wa tuAAizzu man tasha’ wa tudhillu man tasha’, bi yadika al-khayr, innaka AAala kulli shay’in qadeer, Rahmaan al-dunya wal-'aakhirah wa raheemahuma, tuAAteeyhuma man tasha’ wa tamnaAAahoma man tasha’, erhamni rahmatan toghnini biha AAan rahmati man siwaak
(O Allaah, Sovereign of all, You give dominion to whomsoever You will and You take dominion away from whomsoever You will, You exalt whomsoever You will and You bring low whomsoever You will. In Your hand is all goodness and You are able to do all things. Most Merciful and Most compassionate in this world and in the Hereafter, You give them to whomsoever You will and withhold them from whomsoever You will. Bestow mercy upon Me in such a manner that I have no need of the mercy of anyone but You).’”

Classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb (1821).

Ahmad (3712) narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

“If a person who is afflicted by anxiety or sorrow says: ‘Allaahumma inni ‘abduka wa ibnu ‘abdika wa ibn ammatika naasiyati bi yadika maadin fiyya hukmuka ‘adlun fiyya qadaa’uka as’aluka bi kulli ismin huwa laka sammayta bihi nafsaka aw ‘allamtahu ahadan min khalqika aw anzaltahu fi kitaabika aw asta’tharta bihi fi ‘ilm il-ghaybi ‘indaka an taj’al al-Qur’aana rabee’a qalbi wa noora sadri wa jalaa’a huzni wa dhahaaba hammi (O Allaah, I am Your slave, son of Your slave, son of Your female slave, my forelock is in Your hand, Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just. I ask You by every name belonging to You with which You have named Yourself, or, or You have taught to any of Your creation, or You have revealed in Your Book, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the Unseen with You, that You make the Qur’aan the life of my heart and the light of my breast, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety)’, then Allaah will take away his anxiety and sorrow, and will replace it with joy.”

It was said: “O Messenger of Allaah, should we not learn it?” He said: “Yes, whoever hears it should learn it.”

Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb (1822).

May Allaah help us and you to do that which He loves and which pleases Him.

And Allaah knows best."

Additionally, read Surat Al-WaqeAAa every night, learn it by heart and recite it after Esha prayer, it wouldn't take two minutes recited quietly. The prophet said it is the surat of wealth, and whomever keeps it up will never be afflicted by Faqa (poverty). I personally vouch for that one.

There is also Duaa of Musa in the Quran:
رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ rabbi innee lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeerun
O my Lord! truly am I in (desperate) need of any good that Thou dost send me

Then there is one of my favourites:
"بسم الله على نفسي, بسم الله على أهلي ومالي اللهم أرضني بما قضيت لي وعافني فيما أبقيت حتى لا أحب تعجيل ما أخرت ولا تأخير ما عجلت""Bismillahi ala nafsee, bismillahi ala ahlee wa malee, allahomma ardenee bema qadayt lee, wa aafenee feema abqayt, hatta la ohebba taajeel ma akhart, wala taakheer ma ajjalt."
"In the name of God on myself, in the name of God on my family and money. O'God please satisfy me with what you decide for me and grant me wellness with whatever you keep for me, so that I wouldn't like to hasten what you delayed or delay what you hastened."

Remember us in your prayers and dua and may God grant you deliverence from your testing and hardship, after cleansing you of all sins.

Sam

Edited by Sampharo, 22 May 2009 - 08:59 AM.


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Posted 22 May 2009 - 09:43 AM

Salaams
Thanks.... i will try this

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Posted 22 May 2009 - 10:03 AM

Salaams
You are talking about surat al waqia the 56th chapter of the Holy Quran?

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Posted 22 May 2009 - 10:34 AM

Salaams Sam
I actually do have 4 wonderful children. But they are all from my first husband which I am divorced from. My current husband and I have been married now for four years and we would like one child together. :sl:

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Posted 22 May 2009 - 06:17 PM

Yes, the Sura I mean is Surat Al-Waqia no. 56.

I am glad that you have already been blessed with four beautiful children. I am sure your husband wants a baby of his own and I hope you get it. I would like to advise you though to seek a specialist to make sure you don't have an incompatibility problem that can be solved easily rather than waste more time. My brother is a doctor and I remember him saying "Not less than a year, but three years is more than enough" when it comes to trying naturally before checking with a doctor.

The important thing regarding both, money and children, is to make your dua and prayers with a calm believing patient heart, and know that God will provide.

Sam :sl:

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Posted 22 May 2009 - 07:47 PM

Hi Balushia,

Been reading your introduction post and it said your husband has 9 children with his other wife. :sl: :sl: :no: :j: :D :D :D :D :D Bismillahi Masha Allah, God bless and increase! My last reply I thought he's really yearning for a child of his own.

It's obvious though that you are both individually completely healthy in that area, you need to definitely check with a doctor for an incompatibility thing then.

Good luck :D

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Posted 23 May 2009 - 06:03 AM

Salaams

Yea he has 9 children mashallah from his other wife.... we only started discussing having a child recently... cuz there are 13 all together (my children all live with us) I told him he'd never notice one more... ha ha ha! :sl:

So inshallah Allah will bless us....

And incase u are wondering me and his other wife get along very well.... she is a sweetheart and i love her as my sister.... she doesnt speak english and my arabic is only workable, and my balushi is 0... but we manage to communicate with each other. :sl: