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[female]

salamlaykum

I am in desperate need of Allah's mercy and I sincerely believe I am in the situation today due to my own sins but also believe Allah swt has bought me back to the path of rightousness. I have never been more determined than right now in my life to rectify my mistakes and lead a clean life.
My need is that i broke off a haram relationship with my fiance becasue it was making my life a misery. I thought we'd be married within weeks but its lingered for 2years because he lied to me at first he was single and told me later he was already married but by that time i was already hooked. I did not marry because i wanted him to rectify his affairs Islamic way but he is very far from deen and said he'd be killed if his in laws found out. I thought i could change him but i thnk he was using me to get a visa. I want to recite a wazifa that will help soften his heart as he has bad anger and i fear his revenge he may want to hurt and humiliate me so my potential to lead a happy life in future is ruined but also a wazifa that he accepts its over and i want to lead a clean life. I have sincerely repented. I can keep my promises to Allah as i comitted a sin 10yrs ago and did tauba and never done it again. I comitted a different sin 5yrs ago and did tauba and never comitted it since. Now i want to end this haram relationship and know for sure i wont commit such an act again (i never intended it to go this far, i went into this with clean heart for marriage) but want my Allah to give me one more chance to help me escape this man
Jazakallah for any advice
Do u know any wazifa that works to help me movve on in life
Kazakallah

[female]

basically a wazifa to save my respect and honour and to get rid of this man for good or that he leaves me alone without hraming me as he just cant accept its over... I just want a clean life Allah swt

[platinum601]

Assalaamu Alaikum Dear Sister,


Alhamdulilah Allah (swt) allowed you to realize your mistake and bring you back to deen. Shaitaan plays many tricks, and he is very dangerous, thats why what seems like a harmless relationship that would seem as if it would lead to marriage, turned into a haraam relationship that leads us towards the fire. There are reasons why Brothers and Sisters arent allowed to talk to one another, and thats why this a commandment from Allah (swt) and Allah knows best. My advice to you, Honorable sister in Islam is just have sincere repentance. Beg and Cry to Allah For forgiveness, as it is Ramadan time, and a good opportunity for you to be forgiven from your lord. Allah's mercy is greater than anybody elses, and if you are sincere and strictly intend NEVER to do such an act again, Allah (swt) will forgive you. My advice is to cut ALL contacts off with this boy. He had no intention of marrying you, but to use you as a game. Shaitaan will try harder and harder to lead us towards hell fire. Pray to Allah to keep him away from you, and give you a righteous life in the future with a righteous husband and pious children. Make many duas to Allah and be punctual towards his commandments. May Allah always be happy with you.

[female]

jazakallah for ur sincere reply

Yes i now realise the truth in Allah's words. He has placed laws and prohibitions because indeed He does know better. I just hope He gives me strength to fight off this decieving man, i hate myself so much for falling in such a harmful trap. I hope my Lord gets me out of this alive, unharmed and gives me the ability to lead a rightous pious life with a good husband. I just cannot seem to get rid of him or get him to accept its oover but he is so possesive.

[platinum601]

Just pay no attention to that fool, act as if he does not exist. Never talk to him, or answer his replies. Pray Sincerely and Allah's help WILL come. Things will go smoothly for you very soon, inshallah.