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[female]

My friends always judge my choices like they're bad or something. I choose to get married and my friends like "if you're tired of your husband I want tell him if yo UK sleep with this guy" because she feels bad shed on her 6 th live in boyfriend and she's still messing around with two others on the side and she has a very confused 2 year old. my kids are well manered and have what they need.her poor kid can't celebrate birthday this year because she doesn't want to work and all my friends hit me up for money every week like im a bank because we have 2 incomes and don't notch off of welfare Now that Im Muslim its even worse. well if Christianity is so much better why are you forecasting z on drugs, getting drunk every week a n d telling me my religion is messed up? how is modesty, saving sex for marriage, praying, and not indulging in drugs and alcohol the bad here?

[Younes]

As-salamu alaikum

I'm just going to keep my reply short and simple. Stop being friends with people who advise you to have an extra-marital affair or talk about it like it's fine. Don't be around people who can have a bad influence on your kids. Stop giving money to her. If something happens to you because of her, don't be suprised. Stop being friends.

[Spartan786]

Well said haha.

[Redeem]

She doesn't sound like a good friend in any shape or form. Even non-Muslims would avoid someone like that. I agree that the best solution is to keep away from her; she's bad company and she will either influence you negatively or she will make you miserable.