My Mother & Yawm Al Kiyama
Posted 02 May 2012 - 03:40 AM
To start off, as you can see the title this is going to be something about my mother. I'm 14 years old and I am a family of 10, and I am known as the angry one in my family. Every-time I wake up i'm either causing an argument, or retaliating straight away to completely idiotic situations.
Right now I'm up at 4:06am reflecting and making du'a that Allah guides me to the straight path. I was just reading peoples comments on youtube videos on how they love their mothers so much, they are shy to even ask her to do certain things. I'm 100% the opposite. Inshallah this is correct to say, but (Allah knows best) i'm cheeky to my mother every single day. If their is but one day I can please my mother, may it be before she goes. Ameen
Not long ago, I was trying to get to sleep (11:00pm) and then something hit me. I started reading upon the signs, & some reminders about "your mother". Had it not been for tonight, I would not be using the title as it is. Had it not been for tonight, I would not have been reflecting and making du'a. Had it not been for tonight, the days would have went by like a monkey jumping from tree to tree. O mankind! If you have not yet read up on the 50 signs, read now! Verily they day of yawm al kiyama is unknown to man, so beware! For those who are not muslim, do not be of the mankind that resemble sheep and take from media. Rather be of those who search and look! Verily the deen will not come to you, it is you that has to find It.
Indeed Islam is the true religion, as you will come to know on this earth, in your grave or on the Great Day. I will conclude this with a few Ayat (proofs, evidences, miracles, lessons etc.)
And a sign for them is the night, We withdraw therefrom the day, and behold, they are in darkness.
And the sun runs on its fixed course for a term (appointed).
That is the Decree of the All Mighty, the All-Knowing.
And the moon, We have measured for it mansions (to traverse) till it returns like the old dried curved date stalk.
It is not for the sun to overtake the moon, nor does the night outstrip the day. They all float, each in an orbit.
And an Ayah (sign) for them is that We bore their offspring in the laden ship [of Nuh (Noah)].
And We have created for them of the like thereunto, so on them they ride.
And if We will, We shall drown them, and there will be no shout (or helper) for them (to hear their cry for help) nor will they be saved.
nor will they be saved Unless it be a mercy from Us, and as an enjoyment for a while.
Jazakallah Khair [May Allah grant you (goodness)]
Posted 02 May 2012 - 03:44 AM
Posted 02 May 2012 - 06:49 PM
alsalamo alykom wa rahmat Allah, brother
you are right brother, you have to reform your relation to your parents and specially the mother as fast as you can, you may not have the time/chance to substitute that specific time in your life.
you need to review who do you deal with him best, friend, teacher, sheikh....your parents are worthy with this dealing than any other on this earth.
you seems you know what Allah told about dealing with them kindly and mercifully and not to show any sign of dis-satisfaction in front of them,
in the hadeeth, in albayhaqy, 7860- أخبرنا أبو عبد الله الحافظ أخبرني أبو علي الحافظ أنا أبو يعلى أحمد بن علي الموصلي نا أبو ياسر عمار المستملي نا سعيد بن زيد عن محمد بن جحادة عن طلحة بن مصرف عن إبراهيم عن علقمة عن عبد الله قال : النظر إلى الوالد عبادة و النظر إلى الكعبة عبادة و النظر في المصحف عبادة و النظر إلى أخيك حبا له في الله عبادة
" the look to your parents (with mercy and love) is a kind of worshiping to Allah, the look to Al-Kaba'a, the Mushaf, your brother with love in Allah all of that are kinds of worshiping"
brother, tell you can completely control your reactions (which you should do it sooner before later) you have to clear your position to them, if you feel shyness to talk, then jot down what you have in your heart in a paper and give it to your mother, tell here i love you more than any person on this earth, i know i'm so nervous with you, By Allah, forgive me and make Doaa to me, i'm trying to reform my self,.......
the prophet (pbuh) tells " if you live your brother tell him, i love you in the cause of Allah,...." what about parents
it will be great when you get here a present every now and then, the prophet (pbuh) tells " give gifts, to enforce love", doesn't matter the price, but the meaning,....
finally, brother, you have good chance to collect a good deal of good deeds, spread love and relaxation in your house, don't waste the chance
may Allah show us the truth and allow us to follow it.