Posted 11 August 2012 - 11:48 PM
assalamo alykom wa rahmat Allah, sister
mashaa Allah, you did a great job, may Allah accept, purify it and reward you the best....ameen
i hope you will accept my notes,
you stressed on the narrow view of mercy, specially in dealing with adultrus and homosectials, which may lead to the full destruction of a society. i mean, appling Islamic rules is as important as showing mercy to those guys...the balance is some where in between depends on the society culture, rates of the crimes, some personal factors, individuals/guardians/ rulers/ police/........
for example, in a pure and clean society that don't have these crimes we should stress on showing the strict islamic rules for these crimes to DETER people to keep away from these crimes with the highest probabilites, my be in some other societies we may show higher degree of mercy, but still for a specific number of times......
to stop spreading a desease, we may have to trim small part of the body for the sake of the whole body.......in a speach with an adultrus/homsexual person that happened to have AIDS he honored the idea of purishing those people who had AIDS first, to protect the others.
more mercy with those people may be negitivilly affect our own selves, for example more mercy with the next door adultrous woman may allow seducing the husband and the children to such crime and so on....
i believe you mentioned that " qmong the most boius women was an adultruer" which i think you mean the hadeeth about " an Israili adultrous woman reached the paradise because she show mercy to a dog"....to balance such view we have to mention that not all the adultrous are bious nor will reach the paradise and they will suffer harshlly in the hellfire for each kiss, touch,.....in the Haram
i noticed you used to showed one woman who show part of here hair which is not good in Islam and most of the other women pictures with full mackups beauty additavies, and my question will be why a woman like to be more atractive than reality for stranger men???why? isn't that may cause men attraction and ..........
i feel a BALNCED view to Islam is needed for all of us, and Allah knows better