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#21 dot

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Posted 14 May 2013 - 11:17 AM

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Add to that a woman who sleeps a lot and doesn't enjoy cooking.



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Posted 14 May 2013 - 12:26 PM

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Add to that a woman who sleeps a lot and doesn't enjoy cooking.

 

that kind of woman might be in depression, i guess.



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Posted 14 May 2013 - 04:09 PM

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Add to that a woman who sleeps a lot and doesn't enjoy cooking.

 

Are you saying that all women should enjoy cooking? lol 



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Posted 14 May 2013 - 04:12 PM

OKAY HERE BY POPULAR DEMAND 7 TYPES OF WOMEN MEN SHOULD AVOID MARRYING*

1) A WOMAN WHO LIKES TO GOSSIP A LOT
2) A WOMAN WHO IS TOO CONCERNED ABOUT THE LATEST FASHION
3) A WOMAN WHO HAS A NEGLIGENT PERSONALITY (NOT GOOD FOR KIDS)
4) A WOMAN THAT LOVES TO COMPLAIN ABOUT EVERYTHING
5) A WOMAN THAT "MUST HAVE" CERTAIN THINGS (MAKES EXCESSIVE DEMANDS)
6) A WOMAN THAT SPENDS SO LONG BEAUTIFYING HERSELF SHE LOOKS LIKE A DIFFERENT PERSON!!!!
7) A WOMAN THAT IS SUPER FEMINIST

*This list has been composed after 25 years of living in a house dominated by women, 5 of which are his sisters. If you are a sister and have a complaint, please look at point 4 correct yourself so you can get married :P

 

Fair enough. But keep in mind, if you expect the best, likewise is expected from you. 



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Posted 14 May 2013 - 04:33 PM

Fair enough. But keep in mind, if you expect the best, likewise is expected from you. 

 

haha that's true sis!  :D



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Posted 14 May 2013 - 04:43 PM

Are you saying that all women should enjoy cooking? lol 

 

No one is going to marry all women sister, lol.

Nor all women get married either, let alone stay married.



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Posted 15 May 2013 - 07:59 AM

 

Fair enough. But keep in mind, if you expect the best, likewise is expected from you. 

 

I think i got it covered :)

*wait i cant fit my head through the door* :P

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Posted 15 May 2013 - 08:04 AM

In truth regarding all the issues I listed you will find aspects of them in every woman, however that is not a bad thing only when these are in excess. I myself dont expect marriage to always be rosy, its hard work and one of the best pieces of advise regarding marriage is "if you find something you dislike in your spouse, then remind yourself of her good qualities and dont dwell on negatives" from our Beloved Prophet SAWS.

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Posted 15 May 2013 - 03:51 PM

^Hmm.

 

 

No one is going to marry all women sister, lol.

Nor all women get married either, let alone stay married.

 

 

OH. You're only talking about your woman, lol Sorry didn't get that.  



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Posted 16 May 2013 - 02:14 PM

I think some miscommunication is going on here...



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Posted 16 May 2013 - 06:21 PM

I could not tolerate  those in the list (types of women) as there are too many negatives that could create further fitna.

So glad my wife does not come under any of those type of women- she is pretty content, never asks for anything beyond the means, does not make loose talk, hardly complains, not into fashion craze...if anything, would like it if she spent more time beautifying herself more often- does it too little IMO...I like a woman to look good at home.



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Posted 16 May 2013 - 10:11 PM

I could not tolerate  those in the list (types of women) as there are too many negatives that could create further fitna.

So glad my wife does not come under any of those type of women- she is pretty content, never asks for anything beyond the means, does not make loose talk, hardly complains, not into fashion craze...if anything, would like it if she spent more time beautifying herself more often- does it too little IMO...I like a woman to look good at home.

 

tell her that then brother :) maybe she is not aware that you care about this...



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Posted 17 May 2013 - 06:45 AM

tell her that then brother :) maybe she is not aware that you care about this...

LOL I do sister and she does remember occasionally to do so.



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Posted 06 June 2013 - 02:46 PM

Adding to the list:

 

If a man is not willing to compromise before marriage, don't expect him to do so after.



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Posted 06 June 2013 - 03:01 PM

Adding to the list:

 

If a man is not willing to compromise before marriage, don't expect him to do so after.

 

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This is for both male and female.



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Posted 07 June 2013 - 04:27 AM

From my Saudi student, a marriage is like a bottle of bitter medicine with a thin layer of honey on top. He said that, not me. Just saying it here to add some spice to the discussion. From personal experience, I would say,

 

Don't marry women who want to own you.

 

Now which woman doesn't want to own her husband?



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Posted 07 June 2013 - 01:47 PM

From my Saudi student, a marriage is like a bottle of bitter medicine with a thin layer of honey on top. He said that, not me. Just saying it here to add some spice to the discussion. From personal experience, I would say,

 

Don't marry women who want to own you.

 

Now which woman doesn't want to own her husband?

 

lol! Hmm.