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Abu Ruqqayah

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  1. Niqabs

    Assalamu'Alikum, Are you kidding me? Suban'Allah, why are there muslims in the west? Islam is for everyone and all times!! If Aisha(RA) wore the Niqab and the other mothers of the believers then surely it is at LEAST benefitial if not Fard for a sister to wear Niqab. Suban'Allah, this post reminds me of the hadith whcih our prophet(SWS) stated Islam came as something which is strange and it will once again reach this stage.... Fee Amanillah.
  2. Evening Of Inspiration Concerts

    Assalamu'Alikum, Suban'Allah I was atlking to a brother today about these concerts. There was one at the "Royal Albert Hall" a year ago. The brother said that his friend attended and couldn't believe his eyes. He saw "Native Deen" sinign these rap style songs and he felt it was really silly. He also said that the sisters were screaming their names!! They also shouted out, "I love you..." a lot on top of that the group went around colleting funds and also singing at the same time, and their were sisters touching them like they were something special!! Allahu'Alom, but I have never liked these events and I don;t even attend lectures that have a nasheed band also performing, it just doesn't feel right. Fee Amanillah.
  3. Jewlery

    Assalamu'Alikum, I pray everyone is in the best of Health and Iman. Sisters I need your help. Feminine brothers you may help me too if you feel you can. Insha'Allah, you might know, that I am close to getiing married. Now there is lots of stuff that one has to buy for the wedding for the sake of buying it, not really from ones heart. So I thought I should get something for my future wife, Insha'Allah, so I can give her the gift in private after the wedding/Walima. “Exchange gifts, you will love one another.†(Narrated by al-Bukhaari in al-Adab al-Mufrad. Ibn Hajar said: its isnaad is hasan. It was also classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Adab al-Mufrad, 463) Insha'Allah it will increase our love for each other. I thought of getting her a necklase. I think something simple but modern. White gold is nice in my opinion with a small diamond may be? (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.eu.forzieri(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/usa/?l=usa&c=gbr"]Forzieri[/url] has a nice one, search the ID: fz29155-080 also, (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_shop.swarovski(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/is-bin/INTERSHOP.enfinity/eCS/Store/en_ZW/-/EUR/SW_DisplayProductInformation-Start?ProductSKU=99650441&CategoryName=990104026&ProductPage=4"]Swarovski[/url] and (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_shop.swarovski(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/is-bin/INTERSHOP.enfinity/eCS/Store/en_ZW/-/EUR/SW_DisplayProductInformation-Start?ProductSKU=99850065&CategoryName=990104026&ProductPage=0"]This One[/url] or (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.hsamuel.co.uk/webstore/detail/R/5159997/N/72+4294967245/?No=48"]HSamuel[/url] I can't find any more, I don't like the links I have given you that much. I am willing to spend upto £300 insha'Allah, as she will be the special one, Insha'Allah. So please, if you know any better ones, please do suggest them? Fee Amanillah, Wa'Salam.
  4. Jewlery

    Assalamu'Alikum, (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.ernestjones.co.uk/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10051&storeId=10051&productId=5166896&categoryId=3096"]you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.ernestjones.co.uk/webapp/wcs/st...categoryId=3096[/url] or (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.ernestjones.co.uk/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10051&storeId=10051&productId=5179548&categoryId=3101"]you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.ernestjones.co.uk/webapp/wcs/st...categoryId=3101[/url] What do yoou think? Wa'Salam.
  5. Multiple Pains

    Assalamu'Alikum, Ya'Audhibillah. Sister I really don't understand all these emotions/personalities, but I have to say, Alhumdullilah as It is quite amazing that you have still the Iman of a muslim even though you have gone through so much. Suban'Allah, I make dua for your safe passage to paradise, Insha'Allah. May Allah(SWT) be merciful with you in this Dunya and Akhira. Ukthi have you thought of going to a big figure in the muslim community? An Iman or something? Fee Amanillah.
  6. Argh Im Confused

    Assalamu'Alikum, Ukthi what is there to be confused about? He is not as practising as you want him to be and he is not good lookign enough for you to be attracted to him, Suban'Allah. That says it all. Wa'Salam.
  7. Wedding Lenghas!

    Assalamu'Alikum, Ok my sisters and or business people in Islam...I need your help...again! So weddings...can't live with them and can't live without them!! These silly traditions have resulted in my depression and mainly my wallet being so empty....well it will be soon anyway! I need to buy a wedding "dress" which is suppose to be a Lengha! It has to be red...ish...and looks good....So i was looking on the net...and this is what i got... (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_cgi.ebay.co.uk/NEW-RED-WEDDING-ASIAN-LENGHA-SHALWAR-INDIAN-SARI-KAMEEZ_W0QQitemZ5476830586QQcaegoryZ53343QQtcZphotoQQrdZ1QQcdZViewItem"]Red1[/url] (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_cgi.ebay.co.uk/NEW-RED-WEDDING-ASIAN-LENGHA-SHALWAR-INDIAN-SARI-KAMEEZ_W0QQitemZ5476083707QQcaegoryZ53343QQtcZphotoQQrdZ1QQcdZViewItem"]Red2[/url] (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_cgi.ebay.co.uk/NEW-WEDDING-ASIAN-LENGHA-INDIAN-SARI-SHARARA-SHALWAR_W0QQitemZ5475655724QQctegoryZ53343QQtcZphotoQQrdZ1QQmdZViewItem"]Red3[/url] and (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_cgi.ebay.co.uk/NEW-RED-WEDDING-ASIAN-LENGHA-SHALWAR-INDIAN-SARI-KAMEEZ_W0QQitemZ5475652145QQcaegoryZ53343QQtcZphotoQQrdZ1QQcdZViewItem"]Red4[/url] So are they ok? I am going to ask my sisters too...but they will not be at my house for a few days...So i need your advice...sisters who have been told they have good taste...your comments would be very usefull. Jazak'Allah Khair. Anyone who has the temptaion to tell me I might be cheap or it is a bad idea to buy of the net...I know...and keep it to your self...These additional things are really not needed, so I just neeed to get a good, cheap dress so the otherside would not be insulted...I don't care if its from ebay or off the back of a lorry!! Wa'Salam.
  8. Wedding Lenghas!

    Assalamu'Alikum, Akhie i wont make her wear anything she doesn't want too. Sister Zee I agree...They are rubbish apart from the one sister Amani showed. Insha'Allah can you PM me the links or contacts you have? I would prefer the Lengha in Maroon...light Maroon, Insha'Allah. Fee Amanillah, Wa'Salam.
  9. Depression?

    Assalamu'Alikum, Akhie/Ukthi try to cheer up. I know its hard, believe me WE ALL go through some tough times in our lives. Sometimes we let Shaytan get the better of us and he is the best at making us feel bad....and hence we lose intrest and scope on what is most important in our lives, or Deen and worshiping Allah(SWT). MAke sure you don't let him win, ok? I remember a lecture where the Sheikh said listening to Surah Yusuf is a good way to help depression. Try to read about his life, Suba'Allah a lecture by Sheikh Anwar Al-Awaki on the lifes of the prophets really does bring his life into contents. Also try to remember that Allah(SWT) says after hard times always comes good times and after good times there will undoubtably be ahdr times. This is life, we need to adapt to deal with things. We are all different so sometimes we take longer to understand and adjust. Try to learn about the deen of Allah(SWT) and occupy your time with good and insha'Allah things will improve. Makeing Dua is also a tool for the believers, so make sure you use it. Insha'Allah we will make Dua for you. Fee Amanillah, Wa'Salam.
  10. Am I Being Selfish, A Hypocrite?

    Assalamu'Alikum, Ukthi the defining moment in your life is wrapped up in this sentence, Suban'Allah there is a hadith where our prophet(SWS) tells us to look at any potential spouse until we feel something for them. It seems like you have lost that feeling. Also your level of Iman, Masha'Allah, is something so many people would love to have and hence if you marry someone who is not on your level or would at least support you to be a better muslimah and vice versa, then you may have a hard time. Our prophet(SWS) did tell us to try to accept proposals based on their deen, thats is BEST for us. Of course some may marry for lloks, wealth, piety or Deen...but the best is choosing someone for their Deen. If you are not hapy with this brothers Deen then you should tell him to hit the road, specially if his names Jack. Ukthi i think most people have learnt the hard way, but it is better to hurt someones feelings in the short term then ruin both your lives. You should also consider your own feelings, Insha'Allah. Can you really accept someones proposal JUST because you didn;t want to hurt their feelings? Ukthi your fondness for Islam is something that everyone wants to get hold of, your Iman is high at the moment so make sure you do the right things for you to increase your Iman. If you explain to the brother your feelings, in front of a Mehram, then he should understand and if he doesn' then Insha'Allah you will understand that Allah(SWT) has saved you from a greater trial. Insha'Allah you will not commit any sins as your intentions are pure and also you have not agreed the Nikkah and hence he is still a non-mehram. Also if you leave something for the sake of Allah(SWT), insha'Allah he will give you something even better than that. I am sure we at IF will all make Dua for you Insha'Allah. Fee Amanillah, Wa'Salam.
  11. Did Shabina Begum Do The Right Thing?

    Assalamu'Alikum, Sister Darla are you muslim? Wa'Salam.
  12. Skin Blemishes, Marks

    Assalamu'Alikum, Akhie, though I haven't tries it, I have heard "Active Mauka Honey" is VERY good for ones skin. Just apply on the skin and even eczema suffers feel and look better. (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.manukahoney.co.uk/"]you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.manukahoney.co.uk/[/url] Fee Amanillah, Wa'Salam.
  13. Muhammad: Legacy Of A Prophet

    Assalamu'Alikum, Akhie its 701mb...and I have a copy on my pc. Wa'Salam.
  14. Nokia 6170 Mobile.

    Assalamu'Alikum, Akhie where are u based? wa'Salam.
  15. Jewlery

    Assalamu'Alikum, No more suggestions? Wa'Salam.
  16. Wedding Lenghas!

    Assalamu'Alikum, Brothers and sisters the wifey, Insha'Allah, wants the Lengha to be Marron(light Maroon). In an Islamic wedding there should be no giving of dresses, the Mahr is the only thing that should be given by the groom. I don;t really like these traditional things...where you just cough up for noooo reason...if it was from my heart it would be different, however I "HAVE" to give a dress otherwise it would put shame on the family....blah, blah, blah!!! Fee Amanillah. Wa'Salam.
  17. Wedding Lenghas!

    Assalamu'Alikum, It has to be light Maroon? Wa'salam.
  18. Praying With Shoes...

    Assalamu'Alikum, Yes I have prayed when I am in a rush or had to pray outside!! Fee Amanillah.
  19. Shortening The Esha Salaat

    Assalamu'Alikum, there are many Hadiths which Aisha(RA) states our beloved prophet(SWS) never use to pray less that 7 rakkats. Not that is 4 Fard, 2 Sunna and either 2 nofol and 1 witr or 3 witr. Try to do minimum 7 but as long as the Fard is done then Insha'Allah you will not be sining. Our prophet(SWS) also said to pray witr prayers before one goes to sleep. Remember that the Witr prayer is NOT part of salat-ul Easha. Fee Amanillah.
  20. Jewlery

    Assalamu'Alikum, (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.geraldonline(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/54OZp1qMmDt1RObDs681LfBNhlT1EUl/product/product_details.html?id=940"]you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.geraldonline(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/54OZp1qMmDt1RO...ils.html?id=940[/url] or (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.geraldonline(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/54OZp1qMmDt1RObDs681LfBNhlT1EUl/product/product_details.html?id=609"]you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.geraldonline(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/54OZp1qMmDt1RO...ils.html?id=609[/url] or (www.)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.purejewels(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/buildyourown2.asp?src=adwhitegold&cat_id=18CTPENDANTS&pf_id=DIPEFA180035&recno=5"]you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_www.purejewels(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/buildyourown2.as...A180035&recno=5[/url] I like the dreamstone one too, but wouldn't it be a little annoying? Like it wouldn't stay placed? Wa'Salam.
  21. Jewlery

    Assalamu'Alikum, I don't like the blue or pink, if its Dark RED then its fine, but no other colour, actually black aint bad either!! There are so many to choose from, I have a new problem now!! Jazak'Allah Khair. Wa'Salam.
  22. Jewlery

    Assalamu'Alikum, Jazak'Allah Khair for your help, I will ook at them insha'Allah. I like a few already, Alhumdullilah, I just hope she likes it! If she doesn't then I am blaming you lot!! Its interesting how you sisters have the link ready...so quick! Masha'Allah. Wa'Salam.
  23. Jewlery

    Assalamu'Alikum, The 1st and 3rd links are not working! I like the 2nd one...£250 is not bad either. You really think she would like it though? Wa'Salam.
  24. Is the sister really to blame?

    Assalamu'Alikum, Ukthi I have to say in most of the casses I feel your sister is right! However, each case has its own merits. Wa'Salam.
  25. ~ The Women Of My Dream ~

    Assalamu'Alikum, sometimes it is better for a sister not to Pm a brother. Also it is also better in some casses to publicly speak out so that everyone gets the message. Wa'Salam.
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