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  1. Need Some Misery In Life To Be Good?

    :sl: This might just be in my opinion but I think 'struggle' is essential in our existence and you need some of it to give you purpose of all sorts. It leaves you with something to do. Every action you take in life is with the aim of making things better in some shape or form. There was once a TV series in which the character gave a good explanation of the necessity of suffering. The explanation was that when a caterpillar is trying to break out of its cocoon as it is turning into a butterfly, you can choose to help it by cutting the cocoon open. If you do this, you lessen the struggle of the creature, but consequently make it weaker. The newly born butterfly needs to break out of its cocoon itself, because the friction hardens its wings enough for it to fly later on. If you cut the cocoon open, the butterfly will never be able to fly. I don't advocate suffering or at all wish to cause it, but misery/suffering is a natural occurrence - this natural suffering equates to a 'struggle', which is different to the misery we cause on ourselves and each other. A truly wise individual will be able to determine which is which. He will know when to let another individual fight his own battles to let him grow, and he will know when to stop ignorant people from engaging in destructive behaviour. Having said that -- to address the OP's question as to whether we need some misery in life to be good -- sometimes, yes. But that's mainly down to the choices/responses you make to the context at hand. In the face of suffering, it's important to minimize one's own ignorance, acquire wisdom that's required for critical judgment, learn to accept your own suffering as a battle that you MUST win and really WANT to win -- and if you can, help those who are unable to fight their own battles because they are too helpless. In the Quran, it states a lot about struggles, patience, good judgment, etc. It'd be nice if anyone can bring those verses into the thread as I'm in a little hurry at the moment! :sl:
  2. Marriage

    Salams and congrates Hasib! :sl:
  3. Where Is The Great Aunty?

    Assalamu alaykum Khala, I hope everything is okay, if you want to share anything to let it off your mind, I'm here. Miss you so much. Insha'Allah the family and everyone are okay.
  4. Salams

    :sl: ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/images/welcom.gif[/img] to Gawaher I'm glad you decided to join us. I hope that you find your stay here at IF beneficial, as well as enjoyable, and inshaAllah we benefit from each other. As we advise all new comers, please take a moment to read our (you are not allowed to post links yet)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/index.php?act=boardrules"]Forum Rules[/url]. This will greatly enhance your understanding of this community, and ensures a smooth relation with everyone around here. And now here is your welcome drink, on the house! So sit back, and let me pour you a glass of freshly squeezed fruit juice! ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/uploads/post-1-1102388849.jpg[/img]
  5. Halal Store Admin

    :sl: ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/images/welcom.gif[/img] to Gawaher I'm glad you decided to join us. I hope that you find your stay here at IF beneficial, as well as enjoyable, and inshaAllah we benefit from each other. As we advise all new comers, please take a moment to read our (you are not allowed to post links yet)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/index.php?act=boardrules"]Forum Rules[/url]. This will greatly enhance your understanding of this community, and ensures a smooth relation with everyone around here. And now here is your welcome drink, on the house! So sit back, and let me pour you a glass of freshly squeezed fruit juice! ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/uploads/post-1-1102388849.jpg[/img]
  6. Intro.

    :sl: ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/images/welcom.gif[/img] to Gawaher I'm glad you decided to join us. I hope that you find your stay here at IF beneficial, as well as enjoyable, and inshaAllah we benefit from each other. As we advise all new comers, please take a moment to read our (you are not allowed to post links yet)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/index.php?act=boardrules"]Forum Rules[/url]. This will greatly enhance your understanding of this community, and ensures a smooth relation with everyone around here. And now here is your welcome drink, on the house! So sit back, and let me pour you a glass of freshly squeezed fruit juice! ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/uploads/post-1-1102388849.jpg[/img]
  7. New Member

    :sl: ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/images/welcom.gif[/img] to Gawaher ubasha I'm glad you decided to join us. I hope that you find your stay here at IF beneficial, as well as enjoyable, and inshaAllah we benefit from each other. As we advise all new comers, please take a moment to read our (you are not allowed to post links yet)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/index.php?act=boardrules"]Forum Rules[/url]. This will greatly enhance your understanding of this community, and ensures a smooth relation with everyone around here. And now here is your welcome drink, on the house! So sit back, and let me pour you a glass of freshly squeezed fruit juice! ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/uploads/post-1-1102388849.jpg[/img]
  8. Introduction

    :sl: ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/images/welcom.gif[/img] to Gawaher Binyamine I'm glad you decided to join us. I hope that you find your stay here at IF beneficial, as well as enjoyable, and inshaAllah we benefit from each other. As we advise all new comers, please take a moment to read our (you are not allowed to post links yet)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/index.php?act=boardrules"]Forum Rules[/url]. This will greatly enhance your understanding of this community, and ensures a smooth relation with everyone around here. And now here is your welcome drink, on the house! So sit back, and let me pour you a glass of freshly squeezed fruit juice! ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/uploads/post-1-1102388849.jpg[/img]
  9. Prayer

    :sl: ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/images/welcom.gif[/img] to Gawaher SSY, feel at home and ask away :sl: I'm glad you decided to join us. I hope that you find your stay here at IF beneficial, as well as enjoyable, and inshaAllah we benefit from each other. As we advise all new comers, please take a moment to read our (you are not allowed to post links yet)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/index.php?act=boardrules"]Forum Rules[/url]. This will greatly enhance your understanding of this community, and ensures a smooth relation with everyone around here. And now here is your welcome drink, on the house! So sit back, and let me pour you a glass of freshly squeezed fruit juice! ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/uploads/post-1-1102388849.jpg[/img]
  10. In The Name Of Allah

    Ameen. Are you looking forward to benefitting from Gawaher? Insha'Allah you are :sl: Assalamu alaykum ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/images/welcom.gif[/img] to Gawaher I'm glad you decided to join us. I hope that you find your stay here at IF beneficial, as well as enjoyable, and inshaAllah we benefit from each other. As we advise all new comers, please take a moment to read our (you are not allowed to post links yet)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/index.php?act=boardrules"]Forum Rules[/url]. This will greatly enhance your understanding of this community, and ensures a smooth relation with everyone around here. And now here is your welcome drink, on the house! So sit back, and let me pour you a glass of freshly squeezed fruit juice! ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/uploads/post-1-1102388849.jpg[/img]
  11. Hello :)

    :sl: ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/images/welcom.gif[/img] to Gawaher NekkoArts I'm glad you decided to join us. I hope that you find your stay here at IF beneficial, as well as enjoyable, and inshaAllah we benefit from each other. As we advise all new comers, please take a moment to read our (you are not allowed to post links yet)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/index.php?act=boardrules"]Forum Rules[/url]. This will greatly enhance your understanding of this community, and ensures a smooth relation with everyone around here. And now here is your welcome drink, on the house! So sit back, and let me pour you a glass of freshly squeezed fruit juice! ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/uploads/post-1-1102388849.jpg[/img]
  12. Hello!

    :sl: ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/images/welcom.gif[/img] to Gawaher Inquisitive457 :sl: I'm glad you decided to join us. I hope that you find your stay here at IF beneficial, as well as enjoyable, and inshaAllah we benefit from each other. As we advise all new comers, please take a moment to read our (you are not allowed to post links yet)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/index.php?act=boardrules"]Forum Rules[/url]. This will greatly enhance your understanding of this community, and ensures a smooth relation with everyone around here. And now here is your welcome drink, on the house! So sit back, and let me pour you a glass of freshly squeezed fruit juice! ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/uploads/post-1-1102388849.jpg[/img]
  13. Salaam

    Assalamu alaykum and welcome to the forum. You'll be able to post links after a certain amount of posts. Please read the forum rules/policy, you may only post links of your own website or the promotion of any other website in the Links Exchange section, here: (you are not allowed to post links yet)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/index.php?showforum=77.html&"]you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/index.php?showforum=77.html&[/url] and nowhere else. I hope you benefit from your stay on Gawaher. Wasalam
  14. Asalamu Alaykum

    :sl: ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/images/welcom.gif[/img] to Gawaher Umar^111 I'm glad you decided to join us. I hope that you find your stay here at IF beneficial, as well as enjoyable, and inshaAllah we benefit from each other. As we advise all new comers, please take a moment to read our (you are not allowed to post links yet)"you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/index.php?act=boardrules"]Forum Rules[/url]. This will greatly enhance your understanding of this community, and ensures a smooth relation with everyone around here. And now here is your welcome drink, on the house! So sit back, and let me pour you a glass of freshly squeezed fruit juice! ######you can't post links until you reach 50 posts_you are not allowed to post links yetgawaher(contact admin if its a beneficial link)/uploads/post-1-1102388849.jpg[/img]
  15. Am I As Bad As Ppl Say

    :sl: If they cannot reason why they behave in such a way toward you, you have to stop for a minute and acknowledge that the problem is not within you (though I can understand your reaction), and that they have the issues that you can help them resolve. If they cannot, then you will see that some things are not in your complete control and not even your fault so why would you be bad as a result of it? You are what you think and do. Tell them you care about them as family but you can't allow them to trample all over you so they have to either talk to you with manners to solve problems or respect the decision you have to make to protect yourself. And the advice above is good too.
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