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  1. Salams,

     

    Sorry for the problems you are facing and going through.

     

    first thing is first - Brother - i think you guys need to control your anger...once that has been put into prospective - things can be dealt better, and inshallah with peace.

     

    I know controlling anger is easier said than done....but once you the knack of it - it becomes very simple and easy to do.

     

    When you feel tension and feel the anger arising then the best thing to do is leave the room, take five minutes or more out...to calm yourself down and contemplate the situation rather than escelating into a huge argument.

     

    If still you feel your anger is still raging inside you - do whudu - remember Allah swt, read tasbeeh, nafl salah - anything beneficial to you and Allah swt but argue!

     

    Obviously its human nature to have anger - its a natural thing - but measures have been put in place to fight it.

     

    Your brother is just probably confused and hurt inside - im not saying that you might not be - because after an arguemnt things can be unusual to say the least with tension around but remember when things are said in anger - that can hurt the most to anyone...its like nails in the wall - if we take them out - the wholes remain...right?

     

    anyway i hope i have made sense inshallah.

     

    Take care

     

    sis Sunshinez


  2. :D

     

    hope you are all in the best of your health.

     

    i dont know if you remember - but this Topic was put up in Temp Forum - but i think it was accidently deleted or something like that and i have been asked to re-post this again - which is good - because we wont get abuse and crap written like we did in the Tmp Forum - and it can be a memory for us all.

     

    Well Dana/Sis Muslim Girl passed away about roughly just over two weeks ago now. i spoke with her Brother on the 21st October 2004 [at] 2:02pm - here is the transcript below:

     

     

    Sunshinez says:

    salams

     

    dana says:

    wasalam

     

    dana says:

    who r u

     

    Sunshinez says:

    Sis Sunshinz from IF

     

    Sunshinez says:

    Is Dana ok

     

    dana says:

    oh im sorry i am danas brother

     

    Sunshinez says:

    yeah i spoke to you a while ago

     

    dana says:

    my sister passed away almost 2 weeks ago

     

    Sunshinez says:

    inalilahi waina ilayhee rajeeun

     

    Sunshinez says:

    im so sorry to hear this brother

     

    dana says:

    jazakallah khair

     

    Sunshinez says:

    may Allah grant her jannah, peace and blessing

     

    Sunshinez says:

    im in shock

     

    dana says:

    inshallah ameen

     

    Sunshinez says:

    my condolences are with you and the family

     

    dana says:

    thanks sister

     

    Sunshinez says:

    does Mohammed know about this?

     

    dana says:

    im not sure, i dont have his number, cause dana had the phone and we dont know where she put it and we havent been through her things yet

     

    Sunshinez says:

    oh ok

     

    Sunshinez says:

    i will put a message up on IF

     

    dana says:

    jazalaah

     

    Sunshinez says:

    she was a really kind hearted and a sweet sister

     

    dana says:

    yes that was dana

     

    Sunshinez says:

    and may Allah reward her for her efforts

     

    Sunshinez says:

    and grant her good place in jannah- especially with the blessed month of sha'baan and Ramadhan

     

    dana says:

    ameen

     

    Sunshinez says:

    take care of yourself and family also

     

    dana says:

    thanks sister u to

     

    dana says:

    and thx for everything kind u say about my sister

     

    Sunshinez says:

    no problem - that is the least i can do brother

     

    dana says

    its ok thx it mean alot

     

    Sunshinez says:

    she was in so much pain - and Allah did what was best for her

     

    Sunshinez says:

    at least now she is resting in peace inshallah

     

    dana says:

    inshallah

     

    Sunshinez says:

    ok wassalams and remember in your duas

     

    dana says:

    inshallah Allah maak masalama

     

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    so please remember her in your duas, may Allah grant her jaannah, forgive her for her sins and grant her a good place in jannah, reward her for the pain she went through.ameen. this dua also goes for the deceased too.ameen.

     

    May Allah SWT reward dear sis Dana and all dead Muslims, with the best

    of Jannah, and grant her parents and family sabr.  And keep our

    brethren in other oppressed countries in our dua's as well. What suffering our Muslims are going through.  Well, this world is a

    prisoner for Mumin and a paradise for the kafir.

     

    :w:

     

    :D :P :P :D

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