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Salaam brothers and sisters,

My question is that since we allowed to marry believing Christain and Jewish women, what does it actually mean because you have christains and Jews committing shirk and since there seems to be no trace of Jews and Christains that followed Allah's real messgae. Also Did the prophet ever practice this right?

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Walaikum Assalam!

 

The Jews had stopped following Allah's real message before the arrival of Eesa (alaihe salam), that is why Allah :D felt the need of sending Guidance through him. The Christians stopped following the real message before Mohammed :saa: was sent. Thus, when the Qur'an allows marriage to women from the People of the Book, it allows women who were not on the real message.

 

Ibn Kathir (may Allah :D reward him for his efforts) explains this in the tafsir (abridged version) as follwos:

 

The Permission to Marry Chaste Women From the People of the Scriptures

 

Allah said,

 

[وَالْمُحْصَنَـتُ مِنَ الْمُؤْمِنَـتِ]

 

((Lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers) The Ayah states: you are allowed to marry free, chaste believing women. This Ayah is talking about women who do not commit fornication, as evident by the word `chaste'. Allah said in another Ayah,

 

[مُحْصَنَـت غَيْرَ مُسَـفِحَـتٍ وَلاَ مُتَّخِذَاتِ أَخْدَانٍ]

 

(Desiring chastity not committing illegal sexual intercourse, nor taking them as boyfriends (lovers).) [4:25] `Abdullah Ibn `Umar used to advise against marrying Christian women saying, "I do not know of a worse case of Shirk than her saying that `Isa is her lord, while Allah said,

 

[وَلاَ تَنْكِحُواْ الْمُشْرِكَـتِ حَتَّى يُؤْمِنَّ]

 

(And do not marry idolatresses till they believe.)'' Ibn Abi Hatim recorded that Abu Malik Al-Ghifari said that Ibn `Abbas said that when this Ayah was revealed,

 

[وَلاَ تَنْكِحُواْ الْمُشْرِكَـتِ حَتَّى يُؤْمِنَّ]

 

(And do not marry idolatresses till they believe,) the people did not marry the pagan women. When the following Ayah was revealed,

 

[وَالْمُحْصَنَـتُ مِنَ الَّذِينَ أُوتُواْ الْكِتَـبَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ]

 

((Lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture before your time) they married women from the People of the Book. '' Some of the Companions married Christian women and did not see any problem in this, relying on the honorable Ayah,

 

[وَالْمُحْصَنَـتُ مِنَ الَّذِينَ أُوتُواْ الْكِتَـبَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ]

 

((Lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from those who were given the Scripture before your time) Therefore, they made this Ayah an exception to the Ayah in Surat Al-Baqarah,

 

[وَلاَ تَنْكِحُواْ الْمُشْرِكَـتِ حَتَّى يُؤْمِنَّ]

 

(And do not marry the idolatresses till they believe,) considering the latter Ayah to include the People of the Book in its general meaning. Otherwise, there is no contradiction here, since the People of the Book were mentioned alone when mentioning the rest of the idolators. Allah said,

 

[لَمْ يَكُنِ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُواْ مِنْ أَهْلِ الْكِتَـبِ وَالْمُشْرِكِينَ مُنفَكِّينَ حَتَّى تَأْتِيَهُمُ الْبَيِّنَةُ ]

 

(Those who disbelieve from among the People of the Scripture and the idolators, were not going to leave (their disbelief) until there came to them clear evidence.) and,

 

[وَقُلْ لِّلَّذِينَ أُوتُواْ الْكِتَـبَ وَالاٍّمِّيِّينَ ءَأَسْلَمْتُمْ فَإِنْ أَسْلَمُواْ فَقَدِ اهْتَدَواْ]

 

(And say to those who were given the Scripture and to those who are illiterates: "Do you (also) submit yourselves'' If they do, they are rightly guided.) Allah said next,

 

[إِذَآ ءَاتَيْتُمُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ]

 

(When you have given them their due), This refers to the Mahr, so just as these women are chaste and honorable, then give them their Mahr with a good heart. We should mention here that Jabir bin `Abdullah, `Amir Ash-Sha`bi, Ibrahim An-Nakha`i and Al-Hasan Al-Basri stated that when a man marries a woman and she commits illegal sexual intercourse before the marriage is consummated, the marriage is annulled. In this case, she gives back the Mahr that he paid her. Allah said,

 

[مُحْصِنِينَ غَيْرَ مُسَافِحِينَ وَلاَ مُتَّخِذِى أَخْدَانٍ]

 

(Desiring chastity, not illegal sexual intercourse, nor taking them as girl-friends (or lovers).) And just as women must be chaste and avoid illegal sexual activity, such is the case with men, who must also be chaste and honorable. Therefore, Allah said,

 

[غَيْرَ مُسَافِحِينَ]

 

(...not illegal sexual intercourse') as adulterous people do, those who do not avoid sin, nor reject adultery with whomever offers it to them.

 

[وَلاَ مُتَّخِذِى أَخْدَانٍ]

 

(nor taking them as girl-friends (or lovers),) meaning those who have mistresses and girlfriends who commit illegal sexual intercourse with them, as we mentioned in the explanation of Surat An-Nisa'.

 

Yes, Rasool Allah :saa: married both Christian and Jew women. Mary/Mariya the Copt/Christian and Rayhana/Raihana/Rayhanah bint Zaid/Zayd a Jew.

 

But, it is better for a Muslim to marry a Muslimah for very obvious reasons.

 

Wassalam

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