kindwords 0 Posted January 9, 2008 Asalamo alium u all , how are u all, me male 27 from pakistan(azad kashmir). i lost my all family in 2004 earthquake of pakistan. my whole village destroyed. no one left. Alone now. now in malaysia. Just simple and religious person, really want a newmuslimah for my Islamic marry. May Allah(swt) show us the right path. humanitylover1980[at]yahoo(contact admin if its a beneficial link) 006169176903 salam Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kunya 0 Posted January 9, 2008 Asalamo alium u all , how are u all, me male 27 from pakistan(azad kashmir). i lost my all family in 2004 earthquake of pakistan. my whole village destroyed. no one left. Alone now. now in malaysia.Just simple and religious person, really want a newmuslimah for my Islamic marry. May Allah(swt) show us the right path. humanitylover1980[at]yahoo(contact admin if its a beneficial link) 006169176903 salam SALAAM Before anything may Allah have mercy on your dead relatives along with all of our brothers and sisters whom had died because of the earth quake my Allah grant you and all others whom lost their loved ones patients. I must admit brother this forum is not one for such purposes. and definitely not under (WANTED), isn't she a woman, We should all respect our selves and others. i hope i haven't caused you any pain. Again may Allah help you out only he has the power to do so. masalama Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ummammaar 0 Posted March 31, 2008 (edited) :sl: Akhi fillah, sorry for your loss. Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon. I suggest all people looking for marriage partners go to their local masajid and ask their respective, trustworthy a-ima. Alternatively, you can also ask your married friends, who are willing, and trustworthy, to help you out. Sometimes that workers better, faster and more smoothly. I don't suggest anyone to look for a spouse online. It is quite risky, and even people who do get married to someone from the net (even if not from a matrimonial site), there are always issues that linger on for years. The most common of these are trust issues. Also, do you really want to tell your kids you met your spouse from this vast ocean of nothingness, of uncertainty? More fish in the pond.. just look in real life. One can actually have chaperoned meetings/interviews like that. Or at least see how the person behaves in real life, without them even knowing it. Wouldn't you rather be able to see how a person interacts in actuality, rather than maybe have to deal with someone who may put up their best face. Can mods please remove the # in the above post. One should never do that for security reasons. Secondly, it opens the door to fitnah. p.s. Since you're in Malaysia, you should have no problem finding a wife, even if non-kashmiri. Malays are very open to interracial marriages, especially when it comes to people from the Indo-Pak subcontinent, alhumdulilah. Edited March 31, 2008 by ummammaar Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
