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Just forget about the whole thing and live your days alone.

Too much trouble.

 

lol

w/s

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He can't ask her friends, then he might aswell ask her direct.

 

Get her to fill in a "fake" application form, or get a female mahram  on your side to get to know her. 

 

(*sigh*)

 

:w:

 

 

or... you could just nick her phone

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or... you could just nick her phone

 

:D

 

Or buy an exact replica of her phone swap it temporarily and then swap it back. Unless she has renamed her home contacts to something other than "home".... doh!

 

:w:

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All this trouble for a.. girl.

 

Is it really worth it?

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That's what I was thinking sister afg, just thinking about all the things that has to be done makes me exhausted.

 

w/s

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:D

 

if your in luvvvvvvvvv then its definalty worth it. For them :D

 

Me, i wouldnt of bothered. too much hassle :P

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All this trouble for a.. girl.

 

Is it really worth it?

 

 

:D

 

T_T

 

:D

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Assalamu-alaykum,

 

Are your parents involved in this? I hope so insha'Allah....If they are , then show your mom the girl and let your mom do the talking for you, or your sister, or your aunty, until both sides know that the two of you like each other and approve of the two of you chit-chatting in order to get to know one another...this way nothing Haraam is committed.....

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This isn't for real sister kaneeza, it's a hypothetic situation. :D

 

salaam

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I know, just telling in case she missed it.

 

shukran for ur advice sis kaneeza

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lol [at] every1....

 

So far, the best u can come up with is....

 

1. Steal the girls phone.

2. Buy a new phone and replace it with hers temporarily

3. Contact a friend

 

 

No wonder so many of u r unmarried!! :D

Edited by Ladoo_Bhai

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Assalamu-alaykum,

 

Well take my responses hypothetically ....

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In love? *Scoffs* What do these kids know about love?

 

Back in our day, things were so much simpler. None of this e-mail/mobile crap.

 

No wonder none of you can find spouses, hmph.

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basically i would jus look up her last name in the phone book n call her house ... 411(contact admin if its a beneficial link)

 

 

 

 

 

 

lol JUS KIDDING..... what if u called the wrong house!! hahaa that would be funny.....

well let me think...... does she have any brothers? is it possible for u to find her wali and talk to him?..or...

 

......... i got another idea..... which will be as halal as possible.. which is this---> u can get another person or two persons and then in their presence u can talk to the girl and ya all can make some plan to meet her wali.... and this can prolly be done online u know where ya all cant see each other right? like on msn or maybe some private chat room.. then from there u can make some arrangement to meet her wali! inshaaAllah!

Edited by *Undercova-Soljaa*

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:D umm whatever you end up doing, i hope it goes well. hmm..maybe you can go ask her wali in an ape-like manner?! (w00t) "me ....want...marry.." *gotta stand hunched over, arms swinging, and jump up and down*...hahaah

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In love? *Scoffs* What do these kids know about love?

 

Back in our day, things were so much simpler. None of this e-mail/mobile crap.

 

No wonder none of you can find spouses, hmph.

 

(w00t) quoting some aunty eh! :D

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Trying to make fun of the way I speak/type?

 

 

It won't work.

 

 

lol

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Peace,

 

You could always toss stones at her window at midnight with a bouquet of flowers? That has inherent risks like an embaressing trip in a police car/she shares a room with an ultra-religious super-nazi zealot sibling who'll mess up the whole moment/she opens the window too soon.

 

If I were you I'd speak to her first. You have no other choice if you want to contact her mahrams! You can't very well follow her home, I imagine girls don't like that. :D

 

If (hypothetically) you were speaking to her mahrams the best of luck to you. Take along a copy of Time magazine to impress them!

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:D

 

sorry, all I can do is (w00t). Has a mahram been found? Any updates Ladoo.....?

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*Ladoo switches into ape-talk mode*

 

Hypethetical situation.....

Ladoo likes girl

 

Girll seems to like ladoo

 

Ladoo and girl seem to be compatible

 

Neither ladoo nor girl have expressed any 'desire' to be wed.

 

Ladoo decides he should 'make a move'

Should Ladoo

 

a)Ask her directly for hand in marriage

b)Go via mahram without consulting girl.

 

if b....

 

How would ladoo go about contacting said girls mahram?

 

Should ladoo steal her phone?

Ladoo confused.

 

ha ha ha, you had this topic before IF crashed - what was the anwser then? :D

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