i’m a 25 yrs old girl married with one daughter,i have a very good mother she loves me a lot before i married after my marriage she like my husband more than me we are all live in a same house in France. iam a only daughter to my mother when i firstly married my mother started to give food to my husband with her hand like a child but my husband said plz let me eat but she didn’t want to hear she continued after that i got pregnant she didn’t take care of me i got very ill that the time my husband said to my mother plz just stop treating me like a child if u want to take care of someone just plz pay more attention to your daughter she i bearing a child that the she started to fight after that she want my husband to kiss her forehead before going to sleep or awake from sleep or like my husband going to work she force my husband to kiss her forehead she want my husband sleep in her lap i can’t tolerate this anymore.
she didn’t want to even give me and my husband some privacy.she always sit with me if one day we forget to call her in my room if me and my husband spend time like just 10 minuets she got a big fight she is so jealous of me if my husband like me.she lied to my husband like your wife is bad and when i get sick iam in my room i heard she said to my husband like she is fake her illness just don’t give take care of her . when i heard this iam sad .she did lots of bad things to me.now she make a big big problem like she told my 6 yrs old daughter don’t let ur dad kiss you,don’t let him touch you.after that my daughter behavior is changed i ask her why she said grand mother said to me like this iam very shocked my mother want my husband to kiss her forehead but she don’t want to kiss her little daughter she is even more bad now. my husband is a good person he pray 5 times he is good in his iman.she even stated to tell me don’t let ur husband touch ur daughter don’t let him play with her . she give me example like astafirullah there is lots of father rape her own daughter, so be careful. she force me to tell me this to my husband like iam a nut head maybe she want me and my husband got fight.alhamdulilah now we got separate house.but she continues to tell my daughter don’t let ur father kiss you.thats the time i décidé i didn’t talk to her or see her anymore like 1 month i didn’t talk to her i scared of my daughter life that’s why i make a decision like this she just want my husband to lover her.thats why she make lots of bad things.i didn’t want to astafirullah enter hell because of my mother plz what can i do . i already give her warnings don’t tell like this to my daughter but she didn’t hear anything that why i make a final decision.plz sister or mother just help me what can i do now plz ..
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Imagine there is a sale in you favorite store for just one day, what would you do? You won’t waste time you, would go and make the best out of it. Ramadan is a sale month. Sale on good deeds and rewards. Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said:” may a man upon whom Ramadan enters and then passes, before he is forgiven, be humiliated” (Jami` at-Tirmidhi). Don’t waste time, set your Ramadan goals, make your list and go. Here are some goals to help you not miss the sale:
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Measure of Zakat Al-Fitr
A Sa’[ One sa: 2.40kg barley] is to be paid for every individual, and it has to be from man’s food e.g. rice, dates, wheat, in accordance with the hadith of Abu Sa’eed Al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: “We used to pay on the day of Fitr during the time of the Messenger of Allah a Sa’ of food” and he (Abu Sa’eed) said: “And our foods were barley, raisins, (cottage) cheese[ Aqit: dried, curled milk (cottage cheese) used in cooking] and dates.” [ Source: Al Bukhari]
Sa’ is estimated by Hanafis as = 3.25 kgs, and for the majority of scholars as = 2.040 kgs
It is also estimated as four handfuls of an average sized man.
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This is the best period to perform Al I’tikaf. This is in accordance with the hadith reported by ‘Aishah, who said: “The Prophet ﷺ used to seclude himself for worship in the last ten days of Ramadan until Allah Almighty took his soul.” [ Source: Bukhari.]
Anyone who intended to perform Al I’tikaf would observe Salatus-Subhi on the 21st of the month in the Masjid where he intended to perform Al I’tikaf and would subsequently enter into his seclusion. ‘Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: “The Prophet used to perform Al I’tikaf every year in the month of Ramadan; when he prayed Salatus-Subhi, he would enter the place of his Al I’tikaf.” [ Source: Bukhari.]
Al I’tikaf ends with the sunset of the last day of Ramadan. However, it is recommended to delay leaving the Masjid until the early morning of ‘Eid day, because this is what was recorded as being practiced by many of our pious predecessors.