dot 349 Posted May 14, 2013 Are you saying that all women should enjoy cooking? lol No one is going to marry all women sister, lol. Nor all women get married either, let alone stay married. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ala'adin 184 Posted May 15, 2013 Fair enough. But keep in mind, if you expect the best, likewise is expected from you. I think i got it covered :) *wait i cant fit my head through the door* :p 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ala'adin 184 Posted May 15, 2013 In truth regarding all the issues I listed you will find aspects of them in every woman, however that is not a bad thing only when these are in excess. I myself dont expect marriage to always be rosy, its hard work and one of the best pieces of advise regarding marriage is "if you find something you dislike in your spouse, then remind yourself of her good qualities and dont dwell on negatives" from our Beloved Prophet SAWS. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Noora. 76 Posted May 15, 2013 ^Hmm. No one is going to marry all women sister, lol. Nor all women get married either, let alone stay married. OH. You're only talking about your woman, lol Sorry didn't get that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Saracen21stC 239 Posted May 16, 2013 I think some miscommunication is going on here... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Doc 31 Posted May 16, 2013 I could not tolerate those in the list (types of women) as there are too many negatives that could create further fitna. So glad my wife does not come under any of those type of women- she is pretty content, never asks for anything beyond the means, does not make loose talk, hardly complains, not into fashion craze...if anything, would like it if she spent more time beautifying herself more often- does it too little IMO...I like a woman to look good at home. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
muzur 95 Posted May 16, 2013 I could not tolerate those in the list (types of women) as there are too many negatives that could create further fitna. So glad my wife does not come under any of those type of women- she is pretty content, never asks for anything beyond the means, does not make loose talk, hardly complains, not into fashion craze...if anything, would like it if she spent more time beautifying herself more often- does it too little IMO...I like a woman to look good at home. tell her that then brother :) maybe she is not aware that you care about this... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Doc 31 Posted May 17, 2013 tell her that then brother :) maybe she is not aware that you care about this... LOL I do sister and she does remember occasionally to do so. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Noora. 76 Posted June 6, 2013 Adding to the list: If a man is not willing to compromise before marriage, don't expect him to do so after. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Saracen21stC 239 Posted June 6, 2013 Adding to the list: If a man is not willing to compromise before marriage, don't expect him to do so after. :sl: This is for both male and female. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Victor Leigh 4 Posted June 7, 2013 From my Saudi student, a marriage is like a bottle of bitter medicine with a thin layer of honey on top. He said that, not me. Just saying it here to add some spice to the discussion. From personal experience, I would say, Don't marry women who want to own you. Now which woman doesn't want to own her husband? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Noora. 76 Posted June 7, 2013 From my Saudi student, a marriage is like a bottle of bitter medicine with a thin layer of honey on top. He said that, not me. Just saying it here to add some spice to the discussion. From personal experience, I would say, Don't marry women who want to own you. Now which woman doesn't want to own her husband? lol! Hmm. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
